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Great post, key is CLEAR COMMUNICATION. As soon as a guy lets me know where he stands I adjust my actions accordingly. If I got time to waste I may or may not entertain it. If I am looking for something serious and he makes it clear he is not I don't waste my time, I move on. Recently the man I dated communicated that he was looking for serious/long term, for the first two months his words and his actions matched up, around month three he was still saying all the right things but his actions were not matching up but I stayed consistent because he was someone that I saw long-term potential with. I started to recognize he was definitely emotionally unavailable, still not sure if it was to me and me exclusively, but I took the initiative to end things which he protested and insisted that he was on the same page, he only became more distant but expected me to remain consistent in the attention that I gave him. I tired of the cycle and changed my number as to not give him the opportunity to lure me back in. It's OK to be EU, but don't intentionally try to string someone along for the ride for your ego or until you can find the NEXT, keep the communication CLEAR AND TIMELY!
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Soulflower says:
October 3, 2011 at 12:28 am
Man… forget that… flip the script. I'm an emotionally unavailable woman.
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The Romantic vs. The Player: Another Man's Woman
The Romantic vs. The Player: Walking Dogs
Warning To The Women Who Date My Friends
Read Fine Print Before Dating My Unemployed Ass
Situationship, Isness, And The Relationship Thesaurus
James Cameron on Marriage
Why I Am No Longer Using The 10-Point Rating System
Great post, key is CLEAR COMMUNICATION. As soon as a guy lets me know where he stands I adjust my actions accordingly. If I got time to waste I may or may not entertain it. If I am looking for something serious and he makes it clear he is not I don't waste my time, I move on. Recently the man I dated communicated that he was looking for serious/long term, for the first two months his words and his actions matched up, around month three he was still saying all the right things but his actions were not matching up but I stayed consistent because he was someone that I saw long-term potential with. I started to recognize he was definitely emotionally unavailable, still not sure if it was to me and me exclusively, but I took the initiative to end things which he protested and insisted that he was on the same page, he only became more distant but expected me to remain consistent in the attention that I gave him. I tired of the cycle and changed my number as to not give him the opportunity to lure me back in. It's OK to be EU, but don't intentionally try to string someone along for the ride for your ego or until you can find the NEXT, keep the communication CLEAR AND TIMELY!
Reply
Soulflower says:
October 3, 2011 at 12:28 am
Man… forget that… flip the script. I'm an emotionally unavailable woman.
Reply